Try to answer this question: Do you think you have been successful in your life?
If you have come up with a 'No', you ought to read on. If it's a 'Yes', great! But you can still give a shot at this.
Alright, in order to answer the above question, we need to first of all define what success is. And thats not easy. Why? Because success, like happiness, is a very relative term. What's success to me might not be success to you. And that's natural, afetr all every human being has his own ambitions, goals, way of thinking and whatever. But above this phenomenon of individuality, in my opinion, there is a fundamental flaw in the society when it comes to determining success.
And whats that? Its this practice of choosing the wrong paramater to determine if someone has attained success. Wealth is something which takes so much precedence in judging an individual's success. To illustrate, have you ever heard of terms like 'successful social rights activist' or a 'successful professor'? If you have, when was the last time you heard that or how often? Now what about these terms - 'successful businessman', 'successful entrepreneur', even a 'successful politician' ? Everyday, isn't it? For a simple reason that the primary objective of these people is creating wealth while for the former, its about making lives better, creating a betetr tomorrow. But who walks away with the accolade - the 'successful' tag? Ironic it is, and this is beacuse wealth has overshadowed purpose and happiness as the key criterian for determining one's success.
Its not important what you do, its not about how much wealth you manage to amass, its not about all your assets; its about happiness. A poor farmer in a remote hinterland who travels on a bicycle, lives in a hut with his small family but manages to live happily is far more successful in life than a billionaire business magnet sitting in his BMW but is far from being happy. A professor who instills knowledge to his students and creates leaders of tomorrow might not be 'the successful person' you are looking for, but he has served the purpose and he would only be happy to see the fruits of his labour years later.
The bottomline: It's happiness which should determine the success and not anything else. And for that, one needs to learn being content with what they have in their lives. Of course, the hunger to achive should prevail but without adapting the form of obsession, for then the ultimate path to success - happiness would be lost.
Now again, do you think you have been successful in your life?
A Distant Blur
4 months ago


